Author: Ade

One of the most important skills in marriage isn’t just communication with your spouse—it’s communication with God. Every day, you and I face choices that can either build peace or fuel conflict.  And while advice from books, friends, or mentors can help, only God knows the exact step your marriage needs right now. That’s why…

We’ve reached Day 7 of the Love Reboot Challenge, and today’s lesson is one that can transform your marriage for life: speak life, not death. The Bible reminds us:👉 “The tongue has the power of life and death.” (Proverbs 18:21) Your words shape your marriage. They either build or break. And it all begins with…

We’ve made it to Day 3 of the Love Reboot Challenge! 🎉 Today we’re talking about something small that makes a huge difference in marriage: complaining. Here’s the truth: complaining doesn’t just share frustration — it communicates, “You’re supposed to make me happy, and you’re failing.” That message clouds clarity in your marriage like smudges…

I’m so excited to see the responses pouring into the community from Day 1. 🙌 It’s inspiring to watch men and women step up to reboot their marriages with faith and action. Today, in Day 2, we’re learning something life-changing:👉 You carry the atmosphere of your marriage with you. It’s easy to think, “If my…

I’m so excited—we kicked off the Love Reboot Challenge today! 🎉 Day 1 reminded us of something powerful: When God pours His love into our hearts, it’s not just for us—it’s for our spouse too. That means you don’t need to manufacture love on your own. You already have access to an unlimited supply of…

As I was preparing for the Love Reboot Challenge, God reminded me of a simple but powerful truth: 👉 One of the reasons marriages work well is because at least one spouse prays with faith consistently for the other. There’s a big difference between praying with fear and praying with faith. Praying with fear looks at the…

Every great change starts with a catalyst.A spark.A person who chooses to bring something new into the atmosphere. 👉 A Love Catalyst is someone who decides: That’s what the 30-Day Love Reboot Challenge is all about—helping you step into this role. Because when one spouse becomes a Love Catalyst, the entire marriage can shift. The…

Have you ever had your phone or computer freeze up on you?No matter what you try—tapping, swiping, clicking—it just won’t respond… Until you hit that one magical button: REBOOT. Suddenly, everything works again. Smooth. Fresh. Like new. 👉🏾 That’s exactly what the 30-Day Love Reboot Challenge is designed to do for your marriage. Over 30…

Today we drive the final stretch—from Whitby to Cornwall, just under 400 km. After 21 days on the road, visiting family, reconnecting with old friends, and exploring new places, we are almost home. There’s something special about journeys like this. They remind me that marriage and family life are also a journey. There are long…

We are almost home! Yesterday we got to Detroit, and as I reflect on the last 20 days of this road trip, I am deeply grateful. We’ve been together in the same space as a family, traveling thousands of kilometers, and by God’s grace, we are still having fun. That’s not something I take for…

Yesterday we drove to Chicago and visited Millennium Park, where we saw the famous “Bean” (Cloud Gate). As we looked at our reflection — and the reflections of hundreds of other people — I was reminded of how marriage often works. Your spouse is like a mirror. Sometimes you see beauty reflected back. Other times,…

Yesterday we drove from Saskatoon to Minot, ND. On the way, I listened as Olu and the boys chatted and reflected on our trip so far — especially the wonderful time we spent with my sister in Saskatoon. Their conversation reminded me of the foundational message of the Love Workout Method: 👉 If you learn…

Today is special — it’s our 21st wedding anniversary! 🎉 We’re still in Saskatoon at my sister’s house until Saturday, but as we do every year, my wife and I slipped away to a hotel for some quality time together. It’s our way of pressing pause, reflecting on the journey, and reminding ourselves why we…

This weekend was packed with beauty and joy. On Saturday, we visited the stunning Banff and Lake Louise — and on Sunday, we drove from Calgary to Edmonton. But what really made these days special was meeting up with old friends — some we went to university with, and others we hadn’t seen in person…

Today we drove from Regina to Calgary — and somewhere along the long prairie roads, I was reminded of something powerful about marriage: Every couple faces conflicts.But you can choose to see them as opportunities — opportunities to know your spouse better, to understand their heart, and to grow closer instead of drifting apart. On…

Today, we visited the Canadian Museum for Human Rights — a sobering and powerful experience that reminded us of how deeply human dignity matters. Tomorrow, we continue our road trip as we head toward Regina. Yesterday, I promised to unpack what respect and attention look like in lasting marriages. Jesus said: “Do to others as…

Today was a rest day on our road trip. We spent time with some dear pastor friends in Winnipeg and visited The Forks Market — a beautiful blend of food, culture, and memories. One of the couples we met was celebrating 20 years of marriage! Being around them reminded me of something I’ve noticed in…

Today we drove from Sault Ste. Marie to Thunder Bay — a long stretch of road with breathtaking scenery. But after about 4 hours, I found myself wishing we had only 30 minutes left to go. That’s when I realized something powerful: I could complete the drive and even enjoy it — not by changing…

We visited Niagara Falls this morning, and wow — what a powerful sight! Standing there, watching millions of gallons of water crashing down every minute, I was reminded of something profound: Love, like water, can be powerful and overwhelming… or calm and refreshing — depending on how we channel it. Some couples let frustrations, unmet…

We officially began our road trip today — from Cornwall toward Edmonton! Tomorrow morning, we’ll be visiting Niagara Falls as a family (we’re all excited!). But I wanted to share a quick lesson from the road that applies so well to marriage. On our way to Kingston today, we ran into an unexpected delay —…