Category: Inspiration

Have you noticed that when playing in a team sport, and your team mate makes a mistake, you are less keen on pointing out their mistakes. You are more interested in covering up for their mistakes so that the team wins. The goal fo the team makes you ignore the mistakes of your team member.…

After almost 20 years of marriage, and helping many married men and women. I have come to the conclusion that most complaints and requests from my wife boil down to one simple question. Do you love me more than these? I am still learning to respond with yes of course 100% of the time. Sometimes…

Have you ever wondered why weeds and grass keep growing in your lawn every year? Weeds come from seeds being blown around onto your lawn and the grass are the results of the original grass seeds that were sown. Seeds are very small but can grow for a long time when sown. The same applies…

What do I mean by this? I mean that love is difficult to define, explain or quantify. Yet everyone can recognize it, even pets can recognize love. I often have to redefine a situation to properly evaluate what a loving reaction will be. For example, when helping men, I ask them. If your son-in-law does…

Yes, you can focus on yourself when developing your leadership skills or any skill you can use to bless others. Knowing your worth in God’s eyes and the gifts He’s given you will inspire you to grow and develop, becoming a greater blessing to others. The quality of your marriage is directly proportional to the…

Today I met an 80-year-old lady who recently got married. She was so happy because her new husband was an old friend. She was happy because she felt free to be herself. Love is about allowing your spouse to feel free and appreciated for being the person they believe God designed them to be. Yes,…

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When I chose my wife, with God’s help, I was thinking mostly about me. After I got married, I learned to think more about us. But as I have grown more in Christ, I am learning that, to have more impact, I must think a lot more about my wife Olu. Our team of 2…

Outbursts of anger is Satan’s trick to destroy marriages and other relationships! Don’t justify outbursts of anger! It’s not a fruit of the spirit. Anger is a reflection of your interpretation of the situation. If you choose to see things from the spirit, the number of times you get angry will drop drastically. I talked…

Strife and jealousy can feel justified or even flattering at times, but don’t be deceived. These emotions often stem from fear and can lead to pain and destruction in your marriage. While it may feel good to ‘win’ an argument or have your spouse’s undivided attention, remember that these feelings are works of the flesh.…

This is the source of all the pain we feel and cause in marriages. Emotional hurt comes from “lack of love” or hurtful experiences in our past. Fear of being hurt again will cause anyone to be tempted to react. Yielding to this temptation is how we “gratify the desires of the flesh” according to…

Has your spouse ever said this to you? If yes. What does it mean? You may be tempted to show her 10 different things you have done to prove that you care. And does it work? Does she say, “Oh I get it now. You care about us. I am sorry?” Of course not. What…

It’s the 2nd half of 2024. And it is Canada Day here in Canada. Happy Canada Day! Canadians!!! God has a plan for you to be fulfilled and fruitful. No devil can stop you from having a blessed and fruitful life. Unless you stop listening to and obeying the Holy Spirit. Take action TODAY! You’ve…

If problems push you away from God, you may have an idolatry problem. If success draws you away from God, you may also have an idolatry problem. Idolatry will not only destroy your marriage, it will destroy you and everything connected to you. Learn more from yesterday’s live stream – Works of the flesh –…

If your spouse is acting in ways that offend you (apart from abuse and infidelity). You have 3 options. 1) Leave the marriage. 2) Complain about the problem and be miserable as long as they don’t change. 3) Choose to continue to walk with God and experience inner joy while exploring ways to inspire change…

Every marriage has its ups and downs! The best marriages have many more ups than downs between the couple. But all marriages go through the challenges of life that are beyond your control. When you build your marriage on a strong foundation, even the biggest storms will not tear you apart but make you even…

What do you want in your marriage or from your marriage? Do you want a spouse that cooks for you? A spouse that gives you a foot rub every evening? A spouse who has stimulating intellectual discussions with you every evening? It is very good to know what you want. Even better is knowing what…

Gentleness! Gal 5:23. Think about that. Learn more about this in my live stream for today – > Gentleness. Blessings, -Ade

Have you read about the faithful dog, that kept going to the train station to wait for its owner for 9 years after the owner died suddenly and never returned home? The story is a great description of what it means to be faithful. Even when your spouse is unfaithful, you can choose to be…

No matter how you feel today, remember that you are never alone! Now, take advantage of God’s presence and be a source of peace and joy to your home! Blessings -Ade