Category: Inspiration

  • Celebrate Progress!

    Failure when learning a new skill is not failure. We applaud a person who makes an attempt to learn a new skill. My first couple of attempts at loving without conditions felt weird. When you first decide to tap into Agape, you may find that it doesn’t work as planned. This is because you are…

  • Day 5 of 5 – Prayer For your Marriage

    As a believer, you must understand that you are in warfare. You have an enemy who wants to destroy you. (1 Peter 5:8) But you have a Father who has given you authority over the enemy.(Eph 1:18-23) Many people do not know how to resist the enemy and as such, the devil is destroying many…

  • Day 4 of 5 – Prayer For your Marriage

    What is the prayer of Faith (James 5:15)? It is prayer based on a word from God! Nothing can stop the prayer of faith (James 5:15). But most of us do not know what the prayer of faith looks like. Most people pray the prayer of hope. Or the prayer of fear. During the prayer…

  • Day 3 of 5 – Prayer For your Marriage

    What is wrong with these prayer requests? While these prayers express your desires to our all-powerful Heavenly Father, they often go unanswered. Why? Because we may not be willing to change ourselves. It’s like asking your father, “Please help me get an excellent grade in math without doing any extra work.” The desire for excellence…

  • Day 2 of 5 – Prayer For your Marriage.

    Why do some believers get what they want in prayers and others do not? Is there a wrong way to pray? Yes. We can pray wrongly and with the wrong motives (James 4:1-3). And I prayed wrongly for many years. Today during the prayer session we discussed the next state of mind that you need…

  • Day 1 of 5 – Prayer For your Marriage.

    Hallelujah! Miracles are already brewing! God is able and willing to transform your marriage! Are you ready to receive your miracle? We prayed 10 prayers of thanksgiving. Watch the replay and join the prayers here – > Day 1 Prayer Points. Day 2 will be here @ 5 PM EST Tuesday, Aug 27.Blessings, Ade

  • 5 Days of Prayers For Your Marriage!

    Do you believe in miracles? Yes, Nothing is impossible for God. However, to receive miracles you need to have confidence in God! Over the next five days, I will provide training that will increase your faith and confidence. Each day, I will give you 10 scripture-based prayer points for you and your marriage! We will…

  • Trust is not easy!

    Today Olu and I entered a new phase in our growth as parents. We dropped off our first son at the university. On one hand, I am happy to see the young man grow and on the other hand, I wonder what the next couple of years will look like. I am confident that the…

  • What is your strategy for joy in marriage?

    I heard someone share this a while ago and it has stayed with me. No one ever got to the top of a mountain by chance. No one ever says “Wow! How did I get to the top of the mountain? I was just chilling and now I am at the top”. It takes confidence,…

  • Action Steps

    Having a great marriage goal is very important. But there is something more important than goals. Action Steps! What steps do you need to take to achieve your marriage goals? Taking those action steps consistently will lead you to success every time. Blessings, -Ade

  • How Wise Are You?

    In high school, I learned that wisdom is the application of knowledge. But over time, I’ve come to realize that wisdom is much more than that. Wisdom is listening to and obeying the Holy Spirit. For the sake of definition, I now see wisdom as this: Wisdom is consistently doing the right thing at the…

  • Biggest Lesson after 20 Years

    Today Olu and I are celebrating 20 years of being married. The biggest lesson I have learned is this! There are very few people who know what love is! To love is to give up your desire to control your wife and choose to be the best gift that God has given to her on…

  • Challenges?

    Difficult times happen. You will face challenging times as long as you are on this planet. I remember when I had a stroke in 2017. It was hard. As a child of God, you don’t need to be afraid of challenges. God has promised never to leave you nor forsake you! This is why I…

  • Love is not blind

    When you love someone, you see their flaws and continue to be kind and helpful. That doesn’t mean that you are blind to their shortcomings, failures, sins, and works of the flesh. It means you have chosen to be used by God as a part of the solution while you inspire change in them. As…

  • Who are you?

    You are a child of the Almighty God if you believe that Jesus is your Lord and that God raised Him from the dead. And as a result, You have God in you by His Holy Spirit. Nothing that God wants for you is impossible. Keep working on making Mega Impact, starting from your home.…

  • Go for GOLD

    Yes, I have been watching the Paris Olympics! And here is what is interesting. Although every athlete wants to get the gold medal, many of them know that even getting to the Olympics is great. And breaking your Personal Best Record is even better! As a husband, you don’t need to be the best husband…

  • Love or Respect?

    In my 20 plus years as a pastor, I have not met a wife who has never felt unloved by her husband. Neither have I met a husband who has not felt disrespected by his wife. What does that mean? Your wife will disrespect you and it’s not intentional. And she probably feels unloved by…

  • Don’t destroy your home!

    As a husband, the best way to destroy your home is to shut down communication in your home. Every August, my wife Olu and I take a few weeks to recharge. This gives us the time to talk more, play more, rest more, reflect more on scriptures, connect deeper with our children, and so many…

  • Praise…

    Ever since I was a little boy, I’ve known that praise motivates me far more than complaints and fear of negative words. How about you? Do you respond better to praise and positive reinforcement, or do you respond better to fear of negative words? Interestingly, I find myself having to consciously remember to use positive…

  • Never Give Up

    You can’t stop people from giving up on you. But no matter what happens, don’t give up on yourself. Keep on growing! You will reap the reward of investing in your growth if you don’t stop. And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do…