Category: Inspiration

Today I met a man who said to me that his wife saved his life because he was “really messed up” before meeting her. I can only imagine what the woman went through in the process of “saving him”. But it reminded me of the fact that LOVE never fails. She met God and God’s…

If you know how much our Heavenly Father loves you, unspeakable joy will fill your heart. May all the Fathers on this list have a deeper revelation of the love of our Heavenly Father. Blessings, -Ade

It’s much easier to try to control your spouse. “Don’t do that.” “Do that.” “This does not make any sense….” “I am mad at you….” But the result is very transient. It takes much more time and patience to inspire them. But the results last a life time. Think about it. Blessings, -Ade.

Did you pick the wrong spouse? I met a lovely elderly lady not long ago. While discussing, she mentioned that she has had 2 husbands and gotten divorced from both. She also said that she decided to stop after the second marriage went bad. It’s true. Some people choose the wrong spouse!!! Her story got…

My love is conditional If I have a reason why I may stop loving. If however, you choose to ALWAYS love, you will experience the joy and peace of loving unconditionally. The world around you may not understand it. But your spirit will be strengthened and you will experience unexplainable joy in your spirit. Your…

Today the Lord drew my attention to this: It is easier to focus on the things you don’t have than to celebrate what you have. When you first met your spouse, you focused on their strengths. Now are you focusing more on their weaknesses? You get more of what you appreciate and focus on! Think…

If you catch a homeless man who stole your half-eaten burger, will you wrestle him to the ground and give him the beating of his life? Most of us will not. Instead, some of us will buy him a meal and tell him not to steal. When your spouse raises their voice or gives you…

One of my readers sent in a question about their spouse who is in an emotional affair with a work colleague. What does unconditional love look like in this situation? Here is the short answer: LOVE doesn’t change! That is why it is called UNCONDITIONAL. However, the expression of love must change! This is the…

Every day you have to choose between being kind or reacting to your spouse in the flesh (sinful nature). And, many times it feels easier to react than to act in love. Choose love every time and sow the kind of seed you want to reap! You will reap peace, joy, patience…. Blessings, -Ade

Ask questions and show that you have faith in your spouse. When you complain you are saying 3 things: 1) You are not meeting my expectations (remember you are not GOD) 2) I don’t care about all the good you have done in the past, all I care about is my comfort and my pleasure.…

Do you know the joy of serving those who cannot repay you? That is what love does in you! “As for you, my friends, you were called to be free. But do not let this freedom become an excuse for letting your physical desires control you. Instead, let love make you serve one another” Gal…

When your wife tells you that you are too serious what does she mean? She is saying: “You are treating me like a job, business or ministry instead of a friend, lover, or confidant”. When your spouse voices a complaint, it’s wise to address it rather than dismiss it, even if you believe it to…

I have had a blessed day today. Praise be to God for 49yrs. My best friend and wife Olu spoiled me! We celebrated quietly as a family. Thanks for all the prayers, greetings and gifts. I feel really loved. In today’s live stream, I shared our story and the key insight that has made our…

God is ALWAYS ready to do God-sized stuff in your life and marriage! Just trust and obey! Blessings, -Ade

More peace, joy and good health.. These are some of the benefits of knowing how to forgive people properly. For a long time, I thought that forgiving meant that I had to act as if the offender did nothing and they could go free. Then I learned that I do not have the authority to…

If your wife says I think this marriage is over…Here is what she means. I have done everything I know how to do. I feel you are not listening to me. I wish our marriage would work. But I think you don’t love me and you won’t do anything to make our marriage work. So…

Do you know that most of us don’t pray effectively for our marriage? And when we do, the prayers are very selfish. The words may be right but the motive is so that we can have a more peaceful and enjoyable life. This is why so many people pray for years and get little or…

I am happy to announce that the Love Workout Gold Community is open! If you feel stuck in your marriage and you want to turn things around fast, and permanently this program is for you! It will remain open until May 31st at midnight Eastern Time. Learn more here – > Love Workout Gold Community.…

Can a struggling marriage be rebuilt from scratch? Yes, and that is the best way to fix any marriage so you don’t keep having to fix it. Here are the 5 steps. 1) Believe that it can be fixed2) Commit to doing whatever it takes3) Get healed from all the pain you have endured4) Become…

Does that mean that Love is gullible? Because people lie a lot!! No. We know that Love is not gullible because God is not gullible. When God’s Love floods your heart, you can always trust that Agape can transform your spouse (if accepted by them). Love believes that there is no one too “far gone”…