Author: Ade

If your marriage is struggling—or even feels beyond repair, I want to invite you to a special live masterclass where I’ll share 5 essential steps to rebuilding your Christian marriage. This isn’t just theory. These are proven, biblical, and practical steps that have helped countless people restore love, trust, and connection in their marriages—even when…

Monday is for men. If you have cheated on your wife and you need to rebuild trust, This video will help you with that. It’s a new video that I streamed today. The bottom line is this. To build trust, you must be perceived as trustworthy on 3 levels. 1) That you have her best…

Just wanted to share something cool I created – a video course called the Mega Love Workout. It’s all about building better relationships and understanding love on a deeper level. And guess what? It’s FREE today only! Consider it a little gift from me. I poured my heart into this, and I genuinely think you…

Below is a question from a Christian Wife. It’s a long one. I will be answering it and other questions you may have today at 7:00 PM EST Please Set up A Reminder Here NOW – > How to deal with an abusive husband Join me at 7:00 PM EST (New York Time). Here is…

Do you know how it feels to try something over and over, only to fail each time? You start to feel like a failure. People around you may even suggest that you stop trying. But there are some things you must never give up on. One of them is learning to love—learning how to make…

It can be quite frustrating when discussions turn into arguments over and over again. What if you know how to quench those fiery emotions and stop them from turning your discussions into arguments? Getting angry is God’s design to protect us from danger. You will react when you think you are in danger. Even when…

Did you know that even people who make the most outrageous decisions genuinely believe they made the right choice? I didn’t always realize this. That’s why I used to explain myself over and over, thinking it would help. I believed that if my wife understood I never intended to hurt her, she wouldn’t feel bad.…

Why do people shut down and stop talking? How can you ensure that your marriage is not destroyed by the silent treatment known as stonewalling? Get it here – > Stonewalling in Marriage (The Proven Way to Deal With IT) Blessings, -Ade

You can decide not to be critical but you cannot decide not to be criticized. So what can you do if you are married to a very critical person? That’s what I talked about in this video. It boils down to 2 things. 1) Don’t reward what you don’t want more of2) Don’t fall into…

Of course Not! This scripture from Jer 32:27 is what God put on my heart this year. “Behold, I am the LORD, the God of all flesh: is there any thing too hard for me?“ What has God told you that you find difficult to believe? Let’s trust God together. Blessings, -Ade Ps: On Ask…

One great way to show love to someone is to be an example of love and truth even when they don’t seem to deserve it. Jesus is our perfect example of LOVE. He is willing to LOVE through you. HIS love has transformed my marriage and I am so grateful to GOD. Tomorrow I will…

What will you do for LOVE? What have you done for LOVE? Everyone wants to be loved! We are hard-wired by God to seek love! But most people on earth don’t know what real love feels like. Love that is constant, no matter what! Love that sees all your weaknesses and does not change! Love…

Have you ever struggled with forgiveness? Perhaps the hurt runs deep, the wounds feel fresh, or the idea of forgiving seems impossible. But what if I told you there’s a way to tap into the power to forgive— not by your strength, but through God’s? I want to personally invite you to the Forgiveness Clinic,…

It’s true. Communication is foundational to any marriage. And safety is foundational to communication. Most of us can communicate well when things are good. But when things are bad, How do you communicate? Do you use any of these styles? If you do, you are slowly killing your marriage according to Dr John Gottman. In…

Words are spirit… They have the power to influence your life positively or negatively. So use them well. God’s words are infinitely more powerful. So choose to speak God’s words over yourself and your spouse. The entire universe were created by God’s words (Heb 11:3) Speak life.. Say I AM BLESSED. (Eph 1:3) Blessings -Ade

No one teaches you to fall in love. Why should you need to learn how to love? This is a mistake that most people make. We assume that “falling in love” is the same as loving. Far from it. Loving is as different from “falling in love” as, Playing a sport is different from watching…

Too many marriages have been destroyed by anger.. Here is what the Lord taught me a while ago. Most times you get angry because you are thinking about your benefits instead of: Does that mean you should excuse sin? No. It means you should let God lead you! This truth changed me very deeply. Have…

Do you know that you are priceless? You carry the presence of the almighty God in you. This is why you must allow Him to lead you and show you how to represent Him. You are an ambassador for Christ. Learning to love like Jesus is the best thing you can do, Because when you…

Yes of course! The spark in your marriage can return.. And all you need is good old patience… And some strategy!! Or Intentionality! If you want to bring back the spark into your marriage, Sow attention, respect and intrigue in your spouse. In my live stream today, I shared a little more about how this…

In the final part of this series, we covered an important topic: How to ensure you and your spouse share the same big-picture goal. Imagine a marriage where every step you both take brings you closer to a shared dream. We also explored practical tips to deepen your connection with your spouse on three levels:…