Author: Ade

Over the years, many clients have shared with me that they feel trapped in their marriages. They feel like they’re trying to revive something that’s already dead. Instead of enjoying life, they’re enduring it. Why? Because they feel burdened by demands they can’t meet. Because they feel tied to someone who seems determined to drag…

What does it take to transform a marriage from lots of tears to lots of JOY? It’s simple – Keep Love Flowing. But How? By learning to tap into God’s love already poured into your heart (Rom 5:5). When love is flowing freely you will notice 3 things 1) Communication will be ongoing without anyone…

Yes, after almost a year! I finally made the paper copy of the Love Workout Prayer Journal! It’s a journal you can use during your devotional time to record your prayer requests, answered Prayers, and other reflections. As a bonus, I have added a daily ready-made prayer inspired by the day’s scripture, designed to help…

Before I learned how to build a thriving marriage, I made three major mistakes: If you want to build a thriving marriage, avoid these mistakes. Start working on yourself, your communication, and your ability to love deeply. Blessings, -Ade

Happy New Year!! I pray that 2025 will be filled with the manifestation of God’s glory in your life, health, finances, and especially your marriage in the name of Jesus! Thanks for welcoming me into your inbox every day! Blessings, -Ade PS: Something exciting is coming! I’ve been working tirelessly on the paper copy of…

I have discovered that praying for my wife daily has helped our relationship much more than anything else. Praying for her daily does 3 things. If you don’t pray for your spouse daily, consider starting today. You will be glad you did. Blessings, -Ade

You are precious and priceless. You were created by God who is love, To love, be loved and bring glory to Him. It takes some work to understand that the joy that comes from loving, is not just because of the object of your love. The joy comes because that’s who you are. This is…

Too many people make the mistake of thinking that love is weak. If you think so, you may not know what love is. God is LOVE! God is not weak. He is the ultimate victor. Think about it. Blessings, -Ade

We all love to see the joy on someone’s face when we give them a gift. But what if you could give your children a gift that lasts a lifetime? A strong and loving relationship with your spouse creates a stable and happy home, which is invaluable for their development and well-being. If you’re facing…

As we celebrate the love of God and the greatest gift that was ever given (Our Lord Jesus Christ), I want to remind you to speak your spouse’s love language. Here is a quick reminder! 1) Words of appreciation2) Quality Time3) Acts of service4) Thoughtful Gifts5) Physical Touch Better still, do all 5 but splurge…

Remember this and you will save yourself from much pain. Your wife wants to feel like a princess – give her room to do so and enjoy the benefits. Your husband wants to feel like a king – give him room to do so and enjoy the benefits. Blessings, -Ade

I am always amazed at how some simple things can be difficult to do! For example, skydiving with an expert is simple. What is simpler than falling freely? Try to do it and you will discover all the difficulties. Another example is coming clean about a lie you told previously. It’s simple but not easy.…

Have you ever felt bad about disappointing your spouse? Or lied to avoid getting teased? Or argued just to win? Scripture calls these pride! And it destroys lives and makes marriages hard. But God already knew that. Marriage was designed to help expose pride and deal with it. I can testify to you that the…

Or should I cut my loss and start over? Sometimes, you may feel like your efforts are being wasted. Your spouse seems not to see your effort. Today, my message to you is this. Don’t do anything because you want your spouse to change. Take action because you believe it is what God wants you…

Are you a disciple of Jesus? If yes, then you should know that God’s love is in your heart (Roms 5:5) This love (AGAPE) opens you to an unlimited supply of Joy and Peace. Knowing and accepting this love (1 John 4:16) makes it possible for you to understand why so many people struggle to…

Can a marriage be great without great connection and great sexual intimacy? Absolutely Not! But my friend, sexual intimacy is not the problem. Most times, sexual intimacy is great when emotional connection is great. If you try to have better sexual intimacy without first working on your connection, you will experience more difficulties. Don’t solve…

Yes, you can become a power couple. You and your spouse! What is a power couple? It’s a husband and Wife who are having Mega Impact together! The key word is together. Here is where most men miss it. You can’t be a power couple unless your wife is Powerful. The key to becoming a…

If cannot communicate, you are as good as dead. Think about it, what can you do without communication? Even those who work alone in space can only do so because of previous or future communication. If you are married, you are good at communication. You can not be married if you do not know how…

What will you choose? Option 1 – One million dollars in your account right now. or Option 2 – A joyful marriage where: – You can both be completely vulnerable and honest with one another and still feel passionately loved, admired, respected and trusted. – You have a unified vision where both of you are…

Today is my wife’s birthday. To celebrate her I want to share with you what God has taught me about keeping my friendship with Olu strong. Here it is: Do these and your friendship with your spouse will be stronger. Blessings, -Ade