Author: Ade

I give thanks to God for you dear friend. As our US brothers and sisters celebrate Thanksgiving this weekend, I have a special offer for you. If you want me to stand with you, work with you, and pray with you one-on-one for 90 days to transform your marriage, you can do so for a…

Real Joy comes from Real Love.. If you want the kind of joy that lasts and is not affected by the behaviour of your spouse you must learn how to tap into Agape. Tapping into AGAPE requires trusting in God and being honest with HIM. Jesus is God’s demonstration of what love really means. Learn…

One of the biggest mistakes I made and I see so many of my clients making when trying to repair their marriage is focusing on the wrong problem. Most men focus on removing the pain that they believe is caused by their wives. This is similar to trying to treat a brain tumor with painkillers…

For years I thought that I believed that God is my provider until one day God showed me that I only hoped that God would provide. I did not act like someone sure of God’s provision. There is a difference between hope and faith. Faith knows for sure that what God says, will come to…

If your marriage feels broken, you’re not alone. Many Christian men face struggles that challenge their faith and commitment. But through God’s Word, there’s a path to healing—and I’m here to help you find it. The 90-Day Marriage Revival Boot Camp is unlike anything you’ve encountered: Exclusive Guarantee: I am committed to working with you until you see…

I get this question a lot from people who are working really hard to keep their marriages alive. However, I have discovered that it is possible to fight in the wrong way and for the wrong reasons. Don’t fight for your marriage just because of financial convenience, or because your don’t want to be a…

When you choose to love someone just like God does, you are choosing to enter into joy and peace that money can’t buy! No one ever ends their lives wishing for more money. They want more time with loved ones. That is why I know that investing time and energy into learning how to tap…

Have you ever wondered why you have to work so hard on your marriage? The reason is because you have an enemy who wants to destroy you and your spouse. In my livestream yesterday and today I shared the lie that the enemy has been using to destroy lives since the days of Adam. In…

In the Scriptures, God does not define LOVE. He is LOVE, so HE demonstrates LOVE. While we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. When we were at our worst, GOD gave us HIS best. This is love. To Love is to desire the best for your spouse ALWAYS. What is the best? To be…

How can you imitate someone who is infinitely bigger, greater, wiser, stronger and lots more that you? (Eph 5:1 NKJV). You can imitate GOD’s LOVE! We you choose love, God get’s to move in you and through you by love.. Love is that desire for your spouse (and others) to be the best they can…

Yesterday, I met with one of my very successful clients. His marriage changed dramatically when he began to tap into Agape and use the Love Workout Method. But he got busy and forgot to workout…. Guess what! He began to struggle… Whenever you try to make love easy by controlling your wife, you will start…

There was a time in my life that I did not know how to receive help, gifts, blessings… I felt uncomfortable when people gave me gifts, offered to help with difficult things or took care of things on my behalf. Until God opened my eyes to see that He always uses people to bless His…

Are you sure that I can get my wife back? I get this question regularly from my clients. And my answer is usually YES! Except… (watch the full list of my exceptions here) In most cases, I am sure that you can get your wife back if you are willing and able to do the…

Is there hope for my marriage? That is the question one of my clients asked. And my answer was and will always be: As long as God is still God, there is always hope. And as long as you still want to save the marriage, the hope is greater. But if you only want to…

It’s easy to forget that you have an enemy, the devil who is always trying to devour you. And the devil is very subtle. He uses the weaknesses of your spouse against you and tries to use your weaknesses against her. Don’t give in! The real enemy is the devil fighting to make sure you…

Yes, you have a choice. You can choose to speak words that build up your spouse or words that tear them down. What is more! You can determine NEVER to allow words that tear other people down to come out of your mouth.. There are different types of life-giving words that God wants to speak…

Wise people use words to build great marriages and lives. Why do some people find it hard to use their tongues to do this? One reason is we speak negatively to ourselves too. Learn how to get on the path of using your words to build by watching today’s live stream here – > Hold…

Yes. I have had a few bitter experiences when I spoke words that caused me and some people much hurt. Wrong words and attitudes are behind the fall of many kingdoms, marriages and businesses. If you learn to hold your tongue, you are on your way to a transformed marriage. (James 3:2). The Love Experiment…

Yesterday during my livestream I shared 3 things every Christian must know about forgiveness: 1) You are the one who benefits most from forgiving your spouse2) Humans can’t “technically” forgive others (God does that).3) Not forgiving is proof that you don’t trust God. Today I will continue talking about How to forgive your spouse. Join…