Author: Ade

Today as I reflected on what our Lord Jesus Christ has done for us, I felt really blessed. Do you know that there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING that happens to you that our Heavenly Father does not know? There is no need to fear! Only believe and OBEY. Blessings -Ade

Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered 1 Pet 3:7 ESV I am so glad that some high-level men and husbands who are on…

In my last swimming lesson, I saw the trainer hold on to a float and swim across the pool. And I felt that it was going to be easy to replicate. When it was my turn to do it, I felt my body sinking into the pool along with the float!!! How is this so…

I don’t like it when people are rude to me. I am sure you don’t like it either. However, when someone is proud and brags, I can get tempted to be less gentle or kind. This is what is known as a trigger. When someone’s behaviour tempts me do what I don’t want to be…

Love is Patient – 1 Cor 13:4 I hear a lot of people say “I am not so patient,” “I am working on being patient”, and something of that nature. Patience is the ability to endure a difficult or unpleasant situation without losing your joy or calmness. You may find that the more you try…

As a child of God, you are created by God who is love and as such kindness is inherent in you. Sin came and stole kindness from you but in Christ Jesus, we received the Love of God again by the Holy Spirit. So you are kind!! Just let it flow from you at all…

Usually, an apology to your spouse should be enough, especially if it is a first-time offense. So what do you do if you are sorry but your spouse wants more? You demonstrate that you have taken definite actions that will prove that you are committed to changing. What does this look like? You could sign…

I am sure you know how stressful a strained marriage can be! It messes up everything! But few people know how a great marriage can be. It beautifies everything!In this month of my birth, I am opening up 5 spots for people who want to stop the pain in their marriage right now but prefer…

Love is a righteous man laying down His life for a sinner! You can’t fake this kind of love! You have to receive it from God! This love binds two people together and makes them ONE! This Love is in you if you are a believer! The lack of this love is the real problem…

Today I was reminded by God that, even when we are sure that God is leading us, we can still doubt that His leadership will bring us to a “good” end. So we try to take control of things… We try to control the people around us.. Instead of simply trusting that God will complete…

Obedience! Prayer cannot replace obedience. If all the children of God would simply obey the Holy Spirit, we would enjoy almost heaven on earth. So why don’t we find it easy to obey? Because we do not trust that God has our best interest at heart. Yes. Somehow, we think that there is an easier…

The interest is real! Here is the link to – > join the movement of Men Making Mega Impact!! If husbands rise up to the call of God to live like Jesus, wives will gladly follow! God’s call is for the husband to LOVE his wife! The wife is to submit to unconditional LOVE from…

Do you know that when someone is drowning, it is very difficult to rescue them if they continue to struggle? If the rescuer is not experienced enough, they may also get pulled under. What if I told you that if you stopped struggling you can have a much more fruitful life and marriage? What if…

This may be hard for you to swallow! Think about it. God knows everything you are going through! He knows everything you have gone through! He knows everything you will go through! And He has a plan to get you through them so that you are a better person! But you may suffer more than…

Today I had my first swimming class ever!! Yep. I do not know how to swim yet. Interestingly, I have a concept of what swimming looks like. I heard the trainer say that we can all float if there is air in our lungs. And that you can pull through the water with your hands.…

Recently my wife Olu told me that what I said made her feel foolish. And of course that was not my intention. I apologized to her but I felt something struggling inside me. It was not a good feeling. So I decided to examine the feeling a little closer. It was pride. I did not…

You don’t have to be perfect to Love! All you need is to have some PERFECT LOVE! You can’t give what you don’t have. Unfortunately, most people don’t understand Perfect Love! Perfect Love remains the same ALWAYS. It is ALWAYS Kind. It does NOT demand to have its way. The more you know how much…

On Friday and Saturday, I facilitated a men-only spiritual retreat for 24 men. We had a great time. At the end of the retreat, I got an idea that I would like to validate. I am thinking of starting a monthly membership FOR MEN ONLY, to help Christian men improve their marriages and reverse the…

This is something we know we need to do but don’t do. Trust God that: Blessings, -Ade

When you look into the next 10 years, what do you see with regard to your marriage? How happy are you that you and your spouse are fulfilling God’s purpose for your lives? What are you doing together? In what way have you both changed? If you have a clear positive picture, you are blessed.…