Have you realized that it is much easier to say,
“You are always working.” “You don’t think about us”.
“You never notice me”.
Than to say,
“I miss you”?
“I always love it when someone tells me how beautiful I am”?
“I wish I could go watch a movie with a special person from time to time”.?
It’s easier to complain than to open up ourselves for “rejection”.
Complaining only tears down relationships.
Being open and a little vulnerable builds relationships.
Why not try it this weekend?
Let your spouse know something you desire.
Don’t make it a demand or a complaint.
You do that by making sure you don’t use the word “you”.
If you tried it, please share your experience with me.
Blessings
-Ade