Category: Inspiration

I am so excited because we are about to start the Marriage Revival Bootcamp (MRB) 2024. I created the BootCamp in Feb 2023 to help my clients with step by step actions over 90 days to transform their marriages. After the first BootCamp, all the participants wanted to do it again. We did the 2nd…

When you ask your spouse for something, they should feel free to respond with either a “yes” or a “no” without fearing your reaction. If you ask for something from your spouse but don’t genuinely allow them the option to decline, you’re actually making a demand. Demands are about control. While they might give you…

You don’t need to be an expert communicator to be a good spouse! What you need is to be an open, honest and respectful communicator!! Which of these are you strong at? And which do you need to improve on? Blessings -Ade

It’s not easy to define love. But we can recognize love when we see it. Love is when your spouse sees your failures and chooses to stay with you to overcome them. They bear with your pride and they are firm with you. They pray with you, for you, and without you! They do whatever…

Last night at the Marriage Revival Masterclass, I reminded the participants that the main reason why marriages break is because of faulty foundations! The thing about foundations is that they are hidden until there is a storm! Storms only reveal the foundation of your marriage. You can always work on the foundations now! It may…

It’s true and I am a witness! For you to move from point A to point B in your life or marriage you need only 3 things! 1) Commitment – You must believe that the transformation is possible and that you are willing to pay whatever the price is to get it. For example, getting…

Here are 9 signs that your marriage needs urgent attention. If 2 or more of these apply to you, then please register for the marriage revival masterclass scheduled for Monday, Feb 19th at 7 PM Eastern time. (if you haven’t done so already) Do not hesitate to ask questions if you have any about the…

Have you ever wondered how 2 people who seem to love themselves so much can barely stand each other after some years? Is it because of the husband? Or is it the wife? What if it was neither of them? What if I say it was because of their parents and society? Yes, the world…

If…. Yes, doing well is conditional! I wish, I could just say you will thrive and it automatically happens. But I still have good news! The condition is very simple. It may not be easy at first, but it is simple. You will continue to thrive in your marriage. If you continue to learn how…

Today I was reminded of Joyce, I had a client meeting with her. We made a plan. At the end of the session our discussion went something like this: Me: Does this sound like a good plan? Joyce: Yes! Me: Is it something you feel safe and comfortable doing? Joyce: Yes! Me: Will you do…

Stop giving “good advice or suggestions” to your spouse! You may think you are helping them but instead, you are destroying their confidence! Of course, I mean stop giving unsolicited advice! If your spouse asks for your advice by all means give them your best advice. Otherwise, keep it to yourself until they ask. And…

If you study the miracles that our Lord Jesus performed, you will notice that in most of them, He gave instructions. In my experience, I have realized that if you want a miracle in your life, you must be ready to obey Jesus! Do you listen to Him? What did he ask you to do?…

Sometimes as a believer, you can forget that you are a spiritual being and that you have spiritual authority. It’s so easy to think that your spouse is the problem when in fact, you are facing an attack of the enemy on your marriage. I have found that even natural problems have a spiritual source.…

Many times we don’t get the miracles we need because we are not clear about what we want. I remember being amazed that our Lord Jesus Christ, asked a blind man, “What do you want me to do for you?”. (Mark 10:46-52). So today I ask you. What do you want GOD to do in…

Do you know that if you decide to “sow love” every day you will reap multiples of what you sow? Yes! You will. If you are not reaping love, maybe you should find out what you have been sowing. Remember that you have to wait for the harvest. If you have been waiting for years…

Your life today is the sum of all your past decisions. That is why it is very important to take action on things that will produce good fruit in the future. Today, decide to learn how to love unconditionally. This means that: No matter what your spouse does or fails to do, you will be…

As long as your goal is not to offend your spouse, you will feel as if you are trying too hard. Because it is impossible to give your best when your focus is not on being the best that you were designed to be. What you should be doing is getting better at using your…

It’s easier to complain about your spouse’s failures than to celebrate what your spouse does well. Why? Because many of the good things are repetitive and we take them for granted. Here is a powerful tip! You get more of what you celebrate!!! Try it! Here are some examples: I hope you are inspired. Please…