Category: Inspiration

“What do you believe about God?” We asked a man recently! “I don’t believe in GOD! I believe in MONEY he replied.” Ok that’s very scary! But he is more honest than many people. I think many people believe in money more than God! Our Lord Jesus Christ warned us: No one can serve two…

I like to get a gift. I think most people do. But do you like all gifts? NO!!! Your gift will fail to say “I love you” under the following conditions. 1) When your body language says “You had better appreciate this gift”. 2) When you are too proud to add “I am sorry” in…

YOU! Yes, YOU! I know you can’t wrap yourself in a box and present yourself to your spouse. Unless…. Jokes apart. The best gift I have found that anyone can give to another person is a better version of themselves. Investing in yourself is a great gift for your spouse. When you invest in a…

Some people freeze when I encourage them to give gifts because they believe they don’t know how! Here are a few tips and examples to get you started. 1) Give gifts often so that you can get away with giving bad gifts. 2) You cannot give great gifts 100% of the time. So don’t sweat…

When last did you give a gift to your spouse.. for no reason? A gift says: I like you,I am thinking about you,I want to make you happy,I want you,I choose you,You are important to me,I will make an effort to make sure we work,I love you. It is different from a bride: A bribe…

What makes a person want to be around you? When they feel lifted, encouraged, seen, appreciated!! This is how to be a magnetic spouse! By learning to bring out the best in your spouse! This is easier said than done! But It can be done! I am a witness. Here are some examples of how…

It hurts when your love gets rejected. But what does one do when you find yourself unmoved by your spouse’s attempt at showing love? Is the marriage over? Is there still hope? I have good news! The marriage is not over! It can be revived. We have one challenge though! You may not “feel” like…

Who is Jesus to you? Is he only your savior? The one who paid for your sin? Or is he your LORD also? – The one who owns your life! Who is in charge of your life? You or God? As long as you are still trying to use God to meet your needs, you…

Your friends and family think you have a successful marriage but you know that you are unhappy and you are beginning to wonder how long you can continue like this! Church members use you and your husband as examples of people who love each other but you wish they could see how sad you are…

How can I trigger some joy in my spouse today? Follow it with this prayer. Lord make me a source of real joy to my spouse always. Take action. Repeat as often as you can. This is love. Blessings – Ade

When our boys were little we had to train them not to whine, cry or do any other thing to show their displeasure when they could use words. These days I find that I have to train myself and many adults to use words to build their marriage and their spouses and not to tear…

When you complain, get angry, or give the cold treatment to your spouse, it is usually because they have withdrawn love from you and as a result, they have triggered your insecurities. At this point, what you should be saying is this: I feel that I am not important to you. I am afraid that…

Happy Sunday! I have a question for you. What have you been saying about yourself to yourself? If you are mean to yourself, there is no way we can expect you to be loving to another person. If you are mean to yourself, there is no way you can properly appreciate the love that others…

These words and whatever follows may be keeping you from Joy and Peace. They may even be leading you to divorce or an early grave! If ONLY… – my husband can get his acts together and get a better job… – my wife can respect me as she respects her pastor… – my husband can…

Who do you THINK that you are? Your answer to this question determines to a great extent how much joy you have in your life and how people act around you. The interesting thing is this: Who you THINK you are does NOT change who you are. But it determines what you experience! Do you…

The Marriage Revival Bootcamp (MRB) has impacted many lives, changed many homes, put joy in many spouses, and changed the future of many children. After just 2 editions we have many testimonies and I believe yours is next. Here is what Joyce has to say about the BootCamp! You can read her full testimonial here.…

The Marriage Revival Bootcamp (MRB) starts on Friday! If you plan on joining us, please do so NOW before we START on March 1st, 2024. Here are answers to some of the questions that some people have asked. If you have any other questions, please ask and I will be happy to respond to you…

The ONLY way to know if your love is unconditional is to see if you continue to BE KIND even when the other person fails, is unfaithful, unkind, or uncaring. Can this be a good thing? Yes! Because when you remain kind, you allow God to work in and through you. The devil’s plan is…

Do you know that couples who see each other as friends have a greater chance of a stronger marriage? This is something Dr Gottman ( a renowned marriage researcher) found in his research and I have found in my experience. Because Olu is my best friend, I find it easier to forgive her, let her…