What should you do if your spouse has a habit that annoys you and is not healthy for the marriage?
I get this question a lot.
Usually, the problem is a little deeper than just being annoyed by the habit of your spouse.
Some of the underlying problems could be:
1) You are stressed by other unresolved issues.
2) You are afraid that they will get worse.
3) You are afraid that they don’t care about you enough to try to stop….
The list is endless
And yet you are annoyed.
Of course, you have complained.
What next?
Well, find the underlying issue.
Fix that first and you may come up with some ideas for living with the bad habit of your spouse.
As you may know or may eventually discover, nagging at them works only temporarily (with some bad side effects).
Blessings,
-Ade