Have you ever wondered how 2 people who seem to love themselves so much can barely stand each other after some years?
Is it because of the husband?
Or is it the wife?
What if it was neither of them?
What if I say it was because of their parents and society?
Yes, the world around us is set up to break marriages. The expectations are unrealistic.
You may say, but I have great parents who loved me.
And my parents had a great marriage. Why am I struggling?
Here is what my research shows!
Most people get married because they think they have found the perfect spouse to make them happy!
Movies, songs, books, and talks around the home seem to suggest this too.
Take note that the problem is not about having a perfect partner for you.
The problem is that you think that there is a person on earth who can make you happy.
That role belongs to GOD!
When a person learns to see GOD and His LOVE as the true source of joy (Roma 5:5), it becomes much harder for their marriage to be destroyed.
This is why you and I must grow in learning to LOVE like Jesus.
Blessings,
-Ade