Have you noticed that when playing in a team sport, and your team mate makes a mistake, you are less keen on pointing out their mistakes. You are more interested in covering up for their mistakes so that the team wins.
The goal fo the team makes you ignore the mistakes of your team member. And sometimes, you even anticipate their weaknesses and prepare to handle them.
That’s what being a team of two looks like. Even when you spouse is behaving in ways that you don’t understand, you cover them, anticipate their failure and work for the success of the team.
Off course you trust that the coach will see the mistakes and help them.
In your marriage, the Holy Spirit is the coach.
Blessings,
-Ade