I believe the devil will do anything to stop a believer from being effective. That includes you, your spouse and your children (if applicable).
The pain of hurtful words, uncaring attitudes, wasteful behaviors, spiritual immaturity, emotional disconnection and otherwise are being used by the devil for one purpose.
To slow you down and if possible to knock you out.
Today, I want you to remember that you are not alone in this battle. And you already have victory in the name of Jesus.
All you have to do is SAY NO to the devil.
Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour. Resist him, steadfast in the faith, knowing that the same sufferings are experienced by your brotherhood in the world.
1 Peter 5:8 NKJV.
Pay attention and Say No in your heart. Determine that NOTHING will slow you down or break your marriage. Determine that you will be joyful and you will work in unity with your spouse.
Your spouse is NOT the enemy!
Blessings
-Ade