Ever since I was a little boy, I’ve known that praise motivates me far more than complaints and fear of negative words.
How about you? Do you respond better to praise and positive reinforcement, or do you respond better to fear of negative words?
Interestingly, I find myself having to consciously remember to use positive reinforcement, as negative words and thoughts seem to come more naturally.
With practice, I’m much better now!
A friendly reminder to husbands: try praising your wife more often!
Think of ways to encourage her. Don’t get discouraged if she doesn’t respond immediately.
Keep sowing praise, and you will reap a reward (Prov 31:28).
Blessings,
-Ade”