Sometimes a student joins the Love Workout Method Membership with one clear desire:
They just want peace in their home.
If that’s you, maybe you’ve felt like:
- You’ve tried everything, but nothing seems to work—or last.
- You’re exhausted from trying and wondering if a peaceful home is even possible anymore.
- You find yourself hoping each morning will be better, but at night, your heart sinks thinking about the tension your kids witnessed again.
You’re not just fighting for peace for yourself—you’re also thinking about your children.
What are they learning from all this? What kind of future are they being shaped for?
Let me say this clearly:
The tension in your home is a symptom. It is not your fault. Not your spouse’s fault. Not even the kids’.
The truth is, you’ve reached the end of your skill set. You’ve done the best you could with what you know—and that’s not a weakness. It’s human.
I’ve heard it all before…
“You don’t know my spouse.”
“Our situation is just too complicated.”
“This can’t be fixed.”
I understand. I really do.
But here’s what I also know:
- You haven’t yet learned the skills to engage with someone wired completely differently than you—without ending up in conflict or silence.
- You don’t yet have the foundational tools to navigate major stressors as a united team.
- You don’t yet have the ability to repair what’s broken… but I do—and I can teach you.
It’s not your fault you weren’t taught these skills before marriage or kids. But you don’t have to stay stuck.
Think about it like this: I don’t speak Spanish. Not because I’m broken or incapable—just because I haven’t learned it yet. And the same is true for you with the skills needed for creating peace and harmony.
Relationship is a skill set. Not a personality. Not a gift. Not luck. A skill.
You can learn it.
And when you do, your kids will see it.
They’ll learn from you.
They’ll benefit from the peace you’ve fought to create.
If you’re ready to learn how to build lasting harmony in your home, let’s talk.
👉 Click here to book a chat with an Advisor: https://adesobanjo.com/chat
Tell us what you’re facing and what kind of home you desire.
We’ll help you know if the Love Workout Method is the right fit—or point you to the best next step.
You don’t have to do this alone anymore.
Let’s build a peaceful home, together.
With love,
Ade