Category: Inspiration

  • Don’t give up..

    Sowing love requires three things: 1) Faith that the seed of Love will ALWAYS bear fruit. 2) Honesty to and humility to confess and repent when you fall short. 3) Consistency – Grace to keep sowing and not give up even when you don’t see any changes yet. Keep sowing those Love seeds. Blessings, -Ade

  • War Against Divorce!

    I am excited to announce that: I am preparing to host a free workshop next week! To ensure this workshop is as valuable as possible, I’d love to hear your thoughts. What is the main obstacle preventing you from experiencing a more fulfilling and joyful marriage right now? Please reply to this email with your…

  • How to have a good Christian Marriage?

    What is a Good Marriage? Is it a marriage where there is no conflict? Or one where you never get offended. What is God’s view on this? A good marriage is one in which the unit (couple) is being and doing what it was called to be and do with joy! Check out my full…

  • Joy every day?

    Yes. Marriage is designed by God to help you experience Joy in Him more and more everyday. One of the biggest lessons I have learned about agape is this. The more you share it, the more you experience it. And the more joy you have. And all it takes is a simple change in perspective.…

  • The Secret to a Thriving Marriage!

    Over the past 20 years, I’ve helped countless married couples strengthen their relationships. A common theme I’ve observed is that many marriages struggle due to: By learning to discover your spouse’s strengths, weaknesses, and desires, and effectively communicate your own value, you can significantly improve your marriage. Blessings, -Ade Ps: Don’t miss this limited-time offer!…

  • Happy Thanksgiving!

    I give thanks to God for you dear friend. As our US brothers and sisters celebrate Thanksgiving this weekend, I have a special offer for you. If you want me to stand with you, work with you, and pray with you one-on-one for 90 days to transform your marriage, you can do so for a…

  • Real Joy..

    Real Joy comes from Real Love.. If you want the kind of joy that lasts and is not affected by the behaviour of your spouse you must learn how to tap into Agape. Tapping into AGAPE requires trusting in God and being honest with HIM. Jesus is God’s demonstration of what love really means. Learn…

  • What are you focused on?

    One of the biggest mistakes I made and I see so many of my clients making when trying to repair their marriage is focusing on the wrong problem. Most men focus on removing the pain that they believe is caused by their wives. This is similar to trying to treat a brain tumor with painkillers…

  • What do you believe?

    For years I thought that I believed that God is my provider until one day God showed me that I only hoped that God would provide. I did not act like someone sure of God’s provision. There is a difference between hope and faith. Faith knows for sure that what God says, will come to…

  • Restore Joy and Peace in Your Marriage—God’s Way

    If your marriage feels broken, you’re not alone. Many Christian men face struggles that challenge their faith and commitment. But through God’s Word, there’s a path to healing—and I’m here to help you find it. The 90-Day Marriage Revival Boot Camp is unlike anything you’ve encountered: Exclusive Guarantee: I am committed to working with you until you see…

  • Should I keep fighting for my marriage?

    I get this question a lot from people who are working really hard to keep their marriages alive. However, I have discovered that it is possible to fight in the wrong way and for the wrong reasons. Don’t fight for your marriage just because of financial convenience, or because your don’t want to be a…

  • Love is priceless

    When you choose to love someone just like God does, you are choosing to enter into joy and peace that money can’t buy! No one ever ends their lives wishing for more money. They want more time with loved ones. That is why I know that investing time and energy into learning how to tap…

  • The Real Reason For Stress in Marriage …

    Have you ever wondered why you have to work so hard on your marriage? The reason is because you have an enemy who wants to destroy you and your spouse. In my livestream yesterday and today I shared the lie that the enemy has been using to destroy lives since the days of Adam. In…

  • Define LOVE..

    In the Scriptures, God does not define LOVE. He is LOVE, so HE demonstrates LOVE. While we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. When we were at our worst, GOD gave us HIS best. This is love. To Love is to desire the best for your spouse ALWAYS. What is the best? To be…

  • Imitate God..

    How can you imitate someone who is infinitely bigger, greater, wiser, stronger and lots more that you? (Eph 5:1 NKJV). You can imitate GOD’s LOVE! We you choose love, God get’s to move in you and through you by love.. Love is that desire for your spouse (and others) to be the best they can…

  • Love is not always easy..

    Yesterday, I met with one of my very successful clients. His marriage changed dramatically when he began to tap into Agape and use the Love Workout Method. But he got busy and forgot to workout…. Guess what! He began to struggle… Whenever you try to make love easy by controlling your wife, you will start…

  • Do you know how to receive?

    There was a time in my life that I did not know how to receive help, gifts, blessings… I felt uncomfortable when people gave me gifts, offered to help with difficult things or took care of things on my behalf. Until God opened my eyes to see that He always uses people to bless His…

  • 3 Ways You Must Change…

    If you want to save your marriage, you must change in 3 ways. Let me say it another way. You must make 3 changes. 1) Stop the demand relationship style.2) Stop being motivated by FEAR3) Learn to release AGAPE (Love) into your life and marriage. This is what I shared today with the Christian Husbands…

  • Ade are you sure?

    Are you sure that I can get my wife back? I get this question regularly from my clients. And my answer is usually YES! Except… (watch the full list of my exceptions here) In most cases, I am sure that you can get your wife back if you are willing and able to do the…

  • There is ALWAYS hope…

    Is there hope for my marriage? That is the question one of my clients asked. And my answer was and will always be: As long as God is still God, there is always hope. And as long as you still want to save the marriage, the hope is greater. But if you only want to…