Category: Inspiration

Hallelujah! Miracles are already brewing! God is able and willing to transform your marriage! Are you ready to receive your miracle? We prayed 10 prayers of thanksgiving. Watch the replay and join the prayers here – > Day 1 Prayer Points. Day 2 will be here @ 5 PM EST Tuesday, Aug 27.Blessings, Ade

Do you believe in miracles? Yes, Nothing is impossible for God. However, to receive miracles you need to have confidence in God! Over the next five days, I will provide training that will increase your faith and confidence. Each day, I will give you 10 scripture-based prayer points for you and your marriage! We will…

Today Olu and I entered a new phase in our growth as parents. We dropped off our first son at the university. On one hand, I am happy to see the young man grow and on the other hand, I wonder what the next couple of years will look like. I am confident that the…

I heard someone share this a while ago and it has stayed with me. No one ever got to the top of a mountain by chance. No one ever says “Wow! How did I get to the top of the mountain? I was just chilling and now I am at the top”. It takes confidence,…

Having a great marriage goal is very important. But there is something more important than goals. Action Steps! What steps do you need to take to achieve your marriage goals? Taking those action steps consistently will lead you to success every time. Blessings, -Ade

In high school, I learned that wisdom is the application of knowledge. But over time, I’ve come to realize that wisdom is much more than that. Wisdom is listening to and obeying the Holy Spirit. For the sake of definition, I now see wisdom as this: Wisdom is consistently doing the right thing at the…

Today Olu and I are celebrating 20 years of being married. The biggest lesson I have learned is this! There are very few people who know what love is! To love is to give up your desire to control your wife and choose to be the best gift that God has given to her on…

Difficult times happen. You will face challenging times as long as you are on this planet. I remember when I had a stroke in 2017. It was hard. As a child of God, you don’t need to be afraid of challenges. God has promised never to leave you nor forsake you! This is why I…

When you love someone, you see their flaws and continue to be kind and helpful. That doesn’t mean that you are blind to their shortcomings, failures, sins, and works of the flesh. It means you have chosen to be used by God as a part of the solution while you inspire change in them. As…

You are a child of the Almighty God if you believe that Jesus is your Lord and that God raised Him from the dead. And as a result, You have God in you by His Holy Spirit. Nothing that God wants for you is impossible. Keep working on making Mega Impact, starting from your home.…

Yes, I have been watching the Paris Olympics! And here is what is interesting. Although every athlete wants to get the gold medal, many of them know that even getting to the Olympics is great. And breaking your Personal Best Record is even better! As a husband, you don’t need to be the best husband…

In my 20 plus years as a pastor, I have not met a wife who has never felt unloved by her husband. Neither have I met a husband who has not felt disrespected by his wife. What does that mean? Your wife will disrespect you and it’s not intentional. And she probably feels unloved by…

As a husband, the best way to destroy your home is to shut down communication in your home. Every August, my wife Olu and I take a few weeks to recharge. This gives us the time to talk more, play more, rest more, reflect more on scriptures, connect deeper with our children, and so many…

Ever since I was a little boy, I’ve known that praise motivates me far more than complaints and fear of negative words. How about you? Do you respond better to praise and positive reinforcement, or do you respond better to fear of negative words? Interestingly, I find myself having to consciously remember to use positive…

You can’t stop people from giving up on you. But no matter what happens, don’t give up on yourself. Keep on growing! You will reap the reward of investing in your growth if you don’t stop. And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do…

Have you noticed that when playing in a team sport, and your team mate makes a mistake, you are less keen on pointing out their mistakes. You are more interested in covering up for their mistakes so that the team wins. The goal fo the team makes you ignore the mistakes of your team member.…

After almost 20 years of marriage, and helping many married men and women. I have come to the conclusion that most complaints and requests from my wife boil down to one simple question. Do you love me more than these? I am still learning to respond with yes of course 100% of the time. Sometimes…

Have you ever wondered why weeds and grass keep growing in your lawn every year? Weeds come from seeds being blown around onto your lawn and the grass are the results of the original grass seeds that were sown. Seeds are very small but can grow for a long time when sown. The same applies…

What do I mean by this? I mean that love is difficult to define, explain or quantify. Yet everyone can recognize it, even pets can recognize love. I often have to redefine a situation to properly evaluate what a loving reaction will be. For example, when helping men, I ask them. If your son-in-law does…

Yes, you can focus on yourself when developing your leadership skills or any skill you can use to bless others. Knowing your worth in God’s eyes and the gifts He’s given you will inspire you to grow and develop, becoming a greater blessing to others. The quality of your marriage is directly proportional to the…