Category: Inspiration

It can be quite frustrating when discussions turn into arguments over and over again. What if you know how to quench those fiery emotions and stop them from turning your discussions into arguments? Getting angry is God’s design to protect us from danger. You will react when you think you are in danger. Even when…

Did you know that even people who make the most outrageous decisions genuinely believe they made the right choice? I didn’t always realize this. That’s why I used to explain myself over and over, thinking it would help. I believed that if my wife understood I never intended to hurt her, she wouldn’t feel bad.…

Why do people shut down and stop talking? How can you ensure that your marriage is not destroyed by the silent treatment known as stonewalling? Get it here – > Stonewalling in Marriage (The Proven Way to Deal With IT) Blessings, -Ade

You can decide not to be critical but you cannot decide not to be criticized. So what can you do if you are married to a very critical person? That’s what I talked about in this video. It boils down to 2 things. 1) Don’t reward what you don’t want more of2) Don’t fall into…

Of course Not! This scripture from Jer 32:27 is what God put on my heart this year. “Behold, I am the LORD, the God of all flesh: is there any thing too hard for me?“ What has God told you that you find difficult to believe? Let’s trust God together. Blessings, -Ade Ps: On Ask…

One great way to show love to someone is to be an example of love and truth even when they don’t seem to deserve it. Jesus is our perfect example of LOVE. He is willing to LOVE through you. HIS love has transformed my marriage and I am so grateful to GOD. Tomorrow I will…

What will you do for LOVE? What have you done for LOVE? Everyone wants to be loved! We are hard-wired by God to seek love! But most people on earth don’t know what real love feels like. Love that is constant, no matter what! Love that sees all your weaknesses and does not change! Love…

Have you ever struggled with forgiveness? Perhaps the hurt runs deep, the wounds feel fresh, or the idea of forgiving seems impossible. But what if I told you there’s a way to tap into the power to forgive— not by your strength, but through God’s? I want to personally invite you to the Forgiveness Clinic,…

It’s true. Communication is foundational to any marriage. And safety is foundational to communication. Most of us can communicate well when things are good. But when things are bad, How do you communicate? Do you use any of these styles? If you do, you are slowly killing your marriage according to Dr John Gottman. In…

Words are spirit… They have the power to influence your life positively or negatively. So use them well. God’s words are infinitely more powerful. So choose to speak God’s words over yourself and your spouse. The entire universe were created by God’s words (Heb 11:3) Speak life.. Say I AM BLESSED. (Eph 1:3) Blessings -Ade

No one teaches you to fall in love. Why should you need to learn how to love? This is a mistake that most people make. We assume that “falling in love” is the same as loving. Far from it. Loving is as different from “falling in love” as, Playing a sport is different from watching…

Too many marriages have been destroyed by anger.. Here is what the Lord taught me a while ago. Most times you get angry because you are thinking about your benefits instead of: Does that mean you should excuse sin? No. It means you should let God lead you! This truth changed me very deeply. Have…

Do you know that you are priceless? You carry the presence of the almighty God in you. This is why you must allow Him to lead you and show you how to represent Him. You are an ambassador for Christ. Learning to love like Jesus is the best thing you can do, Because when you…

Yes of course! The spark in your marriage can return.. And all you need is good old patience… And some strategy!! Or Intentionality! If you want to bring back the spark into your marriage, Sow attention, respect and intrigue in your spouse. In my live stream today, I shared a little more about how this…

In the final part of this series, we covered an important topic: How to ensure you and your spouse share the same big-picture goal. Imagine a marriage where every step you both take brings you closer to a shared dream. We also explored practical tips to deepen your connection with your spouse on three levels:…

Over the years, many clients have shared with me that they feel trapped in their marriages. They feel like they’re trying to revive something that’s already dead. Instead of enjoying life, they’re enduring it. Why? Because they feel burdened by demands they can’t meet. Because they feel tied to someone who seems determined to drag…

What does it take to transform a marriage from lots of tears to lots of JOY? It’s simple – Keep Love Flowing. But How? By learning to tap into God’s love already poured into your heart (Rom 5:5). When love is flowing freely you will notice 3 things 1) Communication will be ongoing without anyone…

Yes, after almost a year! I finally made the paper copy of the Love Workout Prayer Journal! It’s a journal you can use during your devotional time to record your prayer requests, answered Prayers, and other reflections. As a bonus, I have added a daily ready-made prayer inspired by the day’s scripture, designed to help…

Before I learned how to build a thriving marriage, I made three major mistakes: If you want to build a thriving marriage, avoid these mistakes. Start working on yourself, your communication, and your ability to love deeply. Blessings, -Ade

Happy New Year!! I pray that 2025 will be filled with the manifestation of God’s glory in your life, health, finances, and especially your marriage in the name of Jesus! Thanks for welcoming me into your inbox every day! Blessings, -Ade PS: Something exciting is coming! I’ve been working tirelessly on the paper copy of…