Category: Inspiration

Hi Friend, Yesterday’s livestream was a blast! The key takeaway? A great marriage—or any great relationship—doesn’t happen by chance or luck. A thriving marriage happens when you do simple things consistently over time. Think of it like riding a bike:🚴‍♂️ As long as you’re pedaling, you keep moving forward.🚴‍♂️ Stop pedaling, and eventually, you’ll slow…

I prayed for you yesterday. And while praying, I felt led to share the top 3 lessons God has taught me about building a marriage that keeps getting better every year. Here they are: 1️⃣ Be honest with your heart – When you deal with your own heart first, you learn how to love deeply…

Hi Friend, A while ago, I read a book about love and marriage, and one lesson stood out: When your spouse says something hurtful, just say “ouch.” 💬 “Ouch” says, “That hurt me,” without saying, “You’re a jerk.”💬 It communicates, “I wish you hadn’t said that,” while still leaving room for an apology. Sometimes, your…

In a study of newlyweds by John Gottman, couples who stayed together for at least six years “turned towards” each other 86% of the time, while those who divorced did so only 33% of the time. What does it mean to “turn towards” your spouse? It means using every opportunity to show that you care.…

Even if your answer is yes! You can become better friends. And if your answer is no, This video will help you with that. Bessings, -Ade

If you learn how to pray and hear from God, you are truly blessed. But if you add obedience to those, you will be filled with joy and fruitfulness. In my 20 years as a pastor, I’ve found that the biggest challenge for believers is obedience. What is God telling you to do? Do it.…

What is a relationship without communication? Nothing. Few things are as fulfilling as feeling truly understood and accepted. A dear sister once told me, with tears in her eyes, that she thinks her husband hates her. Why? Because he doesn’t listen and doesn’t seem to care about her needs. If you’ve ever felt this way,…

It’s also hard to love when you’re just trying to survive. The truth is, most people carry deep wounds. That’s why the Bible says: “The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it?” – Jeremiah 17:9 (ESV) Or as the NLT puts it:“The human heart is the most deceitful of…

Can all marriages improve? No. Some marriages are beyond repair. But they are not many. Here are the 3 main things I check for in a marriage to know if it can improve or not. 1) Does at least one spouse know one or two ways in which they can improve?2) Is the spouse I…

Today, my wife Olu’s dad transitioned to glory. He was 94 years old. So, we are grateful for a life well spent. It’s a tough day, nonetheless. I am going to spend most of this weekend helping her process, accept, and celebrate her dad’s new state. So my word of encouragement for you is this.…

One of the biggest revelations that I have received about love and marriage is this. Every action is either an act of love or a cry for love. I know it is hard to understand or agree with at first. But it is true. Use yourself as an example. Review your actions today. You are…

How much are you worth? No, really—how much value do you place on yourself? This is one of the most important questions you can ask because it directly affects how you treat yourself, your spouse, and your marriage. The truth is, the lower you value yourself, the more struggles you’ll face in your marriage. But…

Many years ago, The Lord taught me that, the best prayer I can pray for my wife is for her to know Him more. To be ALL that God designed her to be. To be more obedient to Him. Now I find it easy to pray these kinds of prayers because I pray them for…

Yesterday a friend told me about his divorce. He told me of the emotional stress he experienced in his marriage. And as he shared I wondered, How did you guys get to become so opposed to each other? They met in Bible College. They were in love. But they had weaknesses. And satan used their…

Today we read Isaiah Chapter 40:28 at our staff meeting. God reminded me that He is a BIG God. So I should expect BIG things from HIM. Today I challenge you to expect Big Things from your heavenly Father. Then begin to take action in obedience to receive what you trust God to do. God…

If your marriage is struggling—or even feels beyond repair, I want to invite you to a special live masterclass where I’ll share 5 essential steps to rebuilding your Christian marriage. This isn’t just theory. These are proven, biblical, and practical steps that have helped countless people restore love, trust, and connection in their marriages—even when…

Monday is for men. If you have cheated on your wife and you need to rebuild trust, This video will help you with that. It’s a new video that I streamed today. The bottom line is this. To build trust, you must be perceived as trustworthy on 3 levels. 1) That you have her best…

Just wanted to share something cool I created – a video course called the Mega Love Workout. It’s all about building better relationships and understanding love on a deeper level. And guess what? It’s FREE today only! Consider it a little gift from me. I poured my heart into this, and I genuinely think you…

Below is a question from a Christian Wife. It’s a long one. I will be answering it and other questions you may have today at 7:00 PM EST Please Set up A Reminder Here NOW – > How to deal with an abusive husband Join me at 7:00 PM EST (New York Time). Here is…

Do you know how it feels to try something over and over, only to fail each time? You start to feel like a failure. People around you may even suggest that you stop trying. But there are some things you must never give up on. One of them is learning to love—learning how to make…