Hi Friend,
When you truly love someone, you see their flaws—and still choose to respond with kindness, patience, and support.
That doesn’t mean you ignore shortcomings, failures, or the works of the flesh.
It means you’ve chosen to partner with God as part of the solution, inspiring change with love rather than judgment.
As a follower of Christ, you are not your spouse’s judge.
You are God’s messenger of love—a living expression of His grace and patience in your home.
The Bible reminds us in Romans 2:4 (NLT):
“Don’t you see how wonderfully kind, tolerant, and patient God is with you? Does this mean nothing to you? Can’t you see that his kindness is intended to turn you from your sin?”
Let His kindness shape how you respond—and trust that love can do what judgment never will.
Blessings,
Ade