Author: Ade
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3 “Skills” for A Great Marriage
From my nearly 20 years (Aug 2024) of marriage and more than 20 years of helping married couples as a pastor, I have discovered 3 things that ALL happy couples have. One or both of the couples are above average at these: Yes. These are skills and you can get better at them. Blessing -Ade
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Thank you
These two words go a long way! But there is more. Each time I get a word of appreciation from Olu, it feels so good inside 😀. It makes me feel valued and appreciated. I’m always amazed that her words of appreciation still touch me even though I don’t do things so that she can…
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Faith and patience
You can have more peace, joy, and laughter in your marriage! But it will take faith and patience! There are things I am enjoying in my marriage now that we’re not there at the beginning! We do not want you to become lazy, but to imitate those who through faith and patience inherit what has…
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Marriage Communication
You would not be married if you didn’t know how to communicate. If you love someone and speak different languages, you will find a way to communicate. The fact that you are married means that you know how to communicate. However, you may not know how to communicate when you are offended. Which then means…
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Money…
Keep your life free from love of money… Heb 13:5a ESV Money is neither good nor bad. It’s like anything you have. But money can influence your actions for good or bad! One of the best ways to ensure that money (also interpreted as power) doesn’t come between you and your spouse is: To decide from…
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How skilled are you?
Would you go to your mom for a heart transplant? I hope your answer is NO! Unless your mom is a heart surgeon! Relationship building and repair is a skill. You can develop the skill and get good at it. You just need to get a good trainer and work at it diligently and consistently.…
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Your response…
So you feel disrespected or not valued.. Are you going to respond with faith and love? (Mark 4:35-41) Or are you going to respond with fear? When things that you don’t expect happen, what matters most is how you respond. Many marriages are broken today, not just because of what happened but mostly because of…