If you hear this…

If your wife says I think this marriage is over…

Here is what she means.

I have done everything I know how to do.

I feel you are not listening to me.

I wish our marriage would work.

But I think you don’t love me and you won’t do anything to make our marriage work.

So I would rather live alone than continue to pretend that things are good.

I don’t want you to apologize, I wish you would see how hurt I am and get help so that our marriage would work.

Brother, please get help immediately. It will save your marriage.

Blessings,

-Ade