Here is a mistake that a lot of people make in marriage!
They react too quickly to the situations in their marriage.
Whether it’s responding to disrespectful words or feeling unsupported, it’s easy to fall into a pattern of reacting without addressing the underlying issues.
While it’s natural to react when something bothers us, just reacting doesn’t solve the deeper issues. Instead of getting to the root of the problem, we end up stuck in a cycle of the same issues coming up again and again.
There is a better way!
Instead of reacting to the symptoms, learn to proactively address the root issues. This is called leadership.
So instead of addressing the disrespectful words your spouse said, you can address the pain they must be in, for them to feel so comfortable to speak those words in the first place.
As a leader, you change the way things work! If you don’t know how to do this, you can learn.
Blessings,
-Ade