Yes, catch your spouse doing the right thing.
It’s easier to catch people doing the wrong things…
But most adults do many things right every day and children too!
For your spouse, practice catching them doing the right thing and appreciating it.
You may wonder…
Will this not make them feel that I am okay with all the things that they do wrong?
Of course not.
We all love praise.
And, I can guess you have done a great deal of pointing out mistakes already!
If you can’t find anything that they have done right,
Keep looking. With practice, you will see more and they will do more!
Blessings,
-Ade