These words and whatever follows may be keeping you from Joy and Peace.
They may even be leading you to divorce or an early grave!
If ONLY…
– my husband can get his acts together and get a better job…
– my wife can respect me as she respects her pastor…
– my husband can stop playing video games every day…
– my wife can think a little more, before telling other people my business..
– my husband can stop flirting with other women..
– my wife can focus more on our home and marriage..
– my husband can respond to me with more joy and energy…
– my wife can trust that I know what I am doing…
the list goes on.
If you are here… you are hurting yourself. You feel trapped because you gave the key to your joy and peace away.
Think of saying this instead.
I pray that (insert any of the above) but regardless, I trust that GOD loves us. I will take action with God’s wisdom and I will always have reasons to rejoice.
This is a winning mindset. When people come to me with this mindset, they get results within months instead of years.
Blessings,
-Ade