There are a few things that kill the connection between a couple. Here they are:
- Fear of being judged
- Fear of being rejected
- Fear of being attacked
- Fear of being ridiculed
- Fear of being ignored
- Fear of being blackmailed
- Fear of losing respect
- Fear of being controlled
- Fear of being taken for granted
All these are one: FEAR!!
To strengthen your connection, you must risk one of the above. It is the ONLY way to experience real joy and real love.
If you want to know more about strengthening the connection with your spouse you can watch these videos – Part 1 and Part 2.
There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love.
1 John 4:18 ESV
Blessings,
-Ade